Advice for a Couple's First time having Sex?

hi, my boyfriend and i have finally decided to engage in intercourse after dating for a year. We are both over 18, and will have only been with each other. Any advice/tips you could give me on the dreaded but exciting ';first time';? Will it be uncomfortable for me? what should we expect the first time? Any Advice/tips/links would be greatly appreciated! thank you.Advice for a Couple's First time having Sex?
It will probably hurt for you. so just make-out and stuff at first for a while until you get really into it.Advice for a Couple's First time having Sex?
just relax
wear a condom
So for your first time, he needs to go SLOW, because it will most likely hurt you and be a little painful but don't worry it's not unbearable. Take things easy don't rush to get it over with, he probably won't last very long during the actual act, but take your time with the foreplay and make sure you are completely ready for this, and relaxed. Also don't like set a day that you're going to have sex, it should be mainly spontaneous and a bit of a surprise. Obviously you should use a condom (that's a give in) or if you are on Birth control that is also good depending on how long you have been on it (making sure it will be efficient). Other than that, there really is nothing else, make sure it's what you both want and that you love each other and that you are ready to take this step, and remember : go SLOW. good luck and have fun:)






Have some protection, relax, don't rush and don't expect perfection as for sure not everything will go to plan





Remember to speak up and tell your boyfriend if you are experiencing any pain or discomfort - make sure you both communicate





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Make sure you have privacy also!





All The Best, Take Care %26amp; Be Safe





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Rule #1. Lock the door.





If you go slow it may not be uncomfortable for either of you at all. Expect a possible wonderful or possible confusing experience.



well here it is, have him take it really slow, cause its going to freaking hurt at the beginning for you because he has to rip you open more or less and for him to take it easy because it will hurt at the end for him if its his actual first time, no hand play if you know what i mean
u waited a year? Whoa


anyway just take it slow and wear protection u might want to get on the pill
well yea its going to be pretty uncomfortable for you. Don't expect him to last long and just take it slow... Make sure you are able to tell him when its hurting and that he will stop if you ask. Don't expect to reach as it takes time to actually enjoy it :D don't stress!!! HAVE FUN!!!
you waited a year?
Read info on the net.





Only engage in this when you both are stimulated , do everything you can to be ready for that moment, near ever have sex when your not hot, it'll make it real painful.





Do safe sex, take birth control for at least a month before hand (see your local doctor first)





Have a towel underneath you (black preferably) if you bleed.
yeah it is going to hurt unless he is tiny, but roll with the punches...the next time will be better
you sould go here it is for little kids but it has lots of info we used it in year 7 http://www.thehormonefactory.com/index.cfm?flashOK=1
Make sure you guys are both comfortable with the timing of having sex and the location. MAKE SURE HE HAS PROTECTION! lol.





Do a lot of foreplay. Such as him eating you out and you jerking him, that way ya'll are both prepared for engaging in sex.





For your first time, it could be painful and it could not be. For some girls, it's unbearable pain. For me, my first time didn't hurt at all. It could depend on the size of your man and how tight you are on how much pain comes along with sex.





The first time ya'll should expect it to be... not great.. since it is your first time :-p But still memorable and special.





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