However, we don't have a title. He claims that he wants to wait and grow together and let things flow. Which I was cool with for the first 7 months, now I am kind of fed up with his ****. Keep in mind that we do everything that a couple does, but still he isn't ready to make a commitment. I am not tring to marry him or whatever. I just want a secure relationship. Being that we are not in a relationship, but have been talking for a long *** time. He feels that it is okay for him to talk to other girls on the phone and have all these ';homegirls';. He knows that I don't like it but that isn't stopping him.the situation really hit home lastnight. I was on the phone with him and while we were talking he asked me how to spell something. I told him and it kind of sound like he was typing. I asked was he typing a paper, No, he said that he was just thinking out lound and trippin. I knew he was lying. we hung up and I texted him. he told me he was texting while talking to me. What should I do?I need some advice on this situation.I have been talking to this guy for a year and a couple of months now.?
Trust me!! I know. He just wants to talk to other girls and hes just keepin you around for comfort or so he can have somebody for the time being. I know b/c i was with someone like that. He wasted my time. Leave him now and then he will try to come crawling back cuz he'll see that you dont want him. But when he does, forget him. You'll find someone who love %26amp; cares for you just like I did. No matter how much you miss him..dont let him treat you like that. All women deserve better.I need some advice on this situation.I have been talking to this guy for a year and a couple of months now.?
I have been there...you probably arent the only girl!! If he isnt ready to say that you are actually a couple and there are other girls he is talking to..there is something wrong with that picture. If he likes you and you do the couples thing then he should be ready and willing to say that you are his girlfriend and have the respect to quit talking to or hanging out with these other girls. Does he hang out with them too? You need to leave him...and do it quick.
i didnt if read the rest of the story because i dont need to. its simple if you r having sex then stop, if you r not happy then leave and if you like migraines then keep dealing with him.
Friday, April 30, 2010
Ok, I've got the number/e-mail of a guy I like, but a couple of problems yet? Can you give me some advice?!
There's this really cute guy in my college class who Ive wanted to ask on a date all semester. Everytime we look at each other we smile. Anyway, I knew I had to start making a move this week because it's like very close to the last week, but in class I see some other dude (who has a girlfriend btw) all giddy and smiling as he is getting his number so they can play soccer this weekend. I don't know... it just bothered me for soem reason that he was asking for his number so happy. I felt that guy (who has a girlfriend) his leg up on mine once when I sat by him (may have been a mistake). Idk, but I told the guy I like how I overheard they were going to play soccer and asked if I could join. He was very receptive and asked for my number and e-mail. Anyway, he's e-mailed at told me where to meet for soccer but I would feel more comfortable if I met him away from the other dude and went on like a date to the movies. I'd also enjoy that a lot more, but what to say in the e-mail?Ok, I've got the number/e-mail of a guy I like, but a couple of problems yet? Can you give me some advice?!
dude, go to the soccer thing! who cares if the other guy is there, try to step up, not obviously of course, and then ask him if he wants to get a drink afterwards you know? Ask him right after playing soccer, that way it seems spontaneous and less carefully planned...you don't want to be obvious!Ok, I've got the number/e-mail of a guy I like, but a couple of problems yet? Can you give me some advice?!
don't doubt yourself just do it! Think like a straight guy would, and just don't worry about it, if you don't over-analyze things at this point, you should be fine!
Thank him, and go to the soccer game. Make a good impression THEN email him asking to meet him for coffee/lunch/ movies whatever. First go to this soccer match and have fun. Then he's got to know you a little bit more.eye liner
dude, go to the soccer thing! who cares if the other guy is there, try to step up, not obviously of course, and then ask him if he wants to get a drink afterwards you know? Ask him right after playing soccer, that way it seems spontaneous and less carefully planned...you don't want to be obvious!Ok, I've got the number/e-mail of a guy I like, but a couple of problems yet? Can you give me some advice?!
don't doubt yourself just do it! Think like a straight guy would, and just don't worry about it, if you don't over-analyze things at this point, you should be fine!
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Thank him, and go to the soccer game. Make a good impression THEN email him asking to meet him for coffee/lunch/ movies whatever. First go to this soccer match and have fun. Then he's got to know you a little bit more.
Ok, so I'm dying my hair a couple of different colors, and I need some overall general advice. Can you help?
First, let me start off by telling you that I'll have medium to dark brown hair, with small small black highlights all throughout. Then I'll also have two red streaks, that are somewhat larger, one in the front on the left side, right behind my ear, and one on the right side, farther back, closer to the back of my head. In those streaks I'll have three small blonde highlights. I know that this may sound like it'll look bad, but trust me, It'll look exactly how I want it to, if I do it properly. My mom wants me to do it at home, but I think that would be pretty hard, and I don't want it to get messed up at all. Soo, I'd like to get it done professionally. My first question is, how much do you think it would cost for me to do what I just mentioned, and where? I'm looking for the cheapest thing here, it doesn't have to be perfect, and defiantly not a place that's hard to make appointments for because I'm looking to do this in the next two weeks. Also, I was wondering..blonde's wear brown eyeliner, brunettes, same, and I assume that people with black hair wear black eyeliner. With my hair being all of those colors, I figured that I'd work with the dominant color, but I wasn't sure what type of makeup exactly would work well. Say..el natural as to not over do everything? Anyway, any advice you have would be greatly appreciated!! Thanks in advance!Ok, so I'm dying my hair a couple of different colors, and I need some overall general advice. Can you help?
Well no matter where you go, it will probably be expensive since many places charge by amount of highlights and number of colors. So I'd recommend going to a good place anyways since you'll have to pay alot. I recommend Toni %26amp; Guy if you have one where you live.
And there is no rule as to what color makeup anyone should wear, except redheads can't wear blue. Just go a bit lighter if you wear alot of makeup so you don't look real goth, you know?
Just put a dark brown or black liquid winged liner on the top lid and no liner on the bottom, just your waterline (the inner part of your eye) and some cappucino brown in the crease and blend in a SMALL SMALL amount of black on the outer corner and tapering as it continues inward, and add a light-champagne gold on the brow bone.
Follow with a 2-step mascara, like Maybelline XXL Lash Extensions in Black.Ok, so I'm dying my hair a couple of different colors, and I need some overall general advice. Can you help?
Well you kind of have to say what city you live in so that ppl answering this no what area the hair stylest has to be located but if its orlando floriday then my aunt could! lol and it doens sound crazy or weird i wanted some weird hair to but unlike you my parents wont let me thsi is it
http://www.emobucket.com/albums/userpics/10007/e8.jpg
its like urs in a way i think lol but its short
Not sure about what salon, since I have no idea where you live, but I would definitely have it professionally done.
As for the eyeliner, typically you go by your eye color not your hair color to decide what colors to use.
Well no matter where you go, it will probably be expensive since many places charge by amount of highlights and number of colors. So I'd recommend going to a good place anyways since you'll have to pay alot. I recommend Toni %26amp; Guy if you have one where you live.
And there is no rule as to what color makeup anyone should wear, except redheads can't wear blue. Just go a bit lighter if you wear alot of makeup so you don't look real goth, you know?
Just put a dark brown or black liquid winged liner on the top lid and no liner on the bottom, just your waterline (the inner part of your eye) and some cappucino brown in the crease and blend in a SMALL SMALL amount of black on the outer corner and tapering as it continues inward, and add a light-champagne gold on the brow bone.
Follow with a 2-step mascara, like Maybelline XXL Lash Extensions in Black.Ok, so I'm dying my hair a couple of different colors, and I need some overall general advice. Can you help?
Well you kind of have to say what city you live in so that ppl answering this no what area the hair stylest has to be located but if its orlando floriday then my aunt could! lol and it doens sound crazy or weird i wanted some weird hair to but unlike you my parents wont let me thsi is it
http://www.emobucket.com/albums/userpics/10007/e8.jpg
its like urs in a way i think lol but its short
Not sure about what salon, since I have no idea where you live, but I would definitely have it professionally done.
As for the eyeliner, typically you go by your eye color not your hair color to decide what colors to use.
I live with my ex husband. we live as a couple but my heart belongs to my ex boy friend. i need your advice?
I have an affair while i was married. my husband didn't know about it. We got divorce and I move in with my boy friend. we are so inlove. while waiting for my divorce to be final. but i wasn't ready to settle so i moved out to my BF place. went back to my ex husband place; live as a couple. but we're divorce. then one day my boy friend called my ex husband and he told everything that his not supposed to say. i thought that i can trust him. by not telling everybody about me. so i broke up with him. i know i'm not perfect %26amp; i made mistake. but i was wrong to give all that trust. now my ex husband %26amp; my ex boy friend want me back...
my question is my ex bf still inlove with me %26amp; we still talk but he doesn't know that i live with my ex husband. what should i do? I'm still inlove with him but deep inside i am afraid. thank you for you time reading my problem...I live with my ex husband. we live as a couple but my heart belongs to my ex boy friend. i need your advice?
You need to leave them both alone and start working on you. Step out of the situation so you can get it together.I live with my ex husband. we live as a couple but my heart belongs to my ex boy friend. i need your advice?
you should think about this....What would make ME happy.... if you are happy with yourself then you will know who would keep that happiness flowing... if you are with someone that has cheated with you while he knew you where married....do you really think he wont do the same to you? This bf has got to go! you need to cut all ties and as hard as it will be(trust me ive been through this) you will never fully trust this bf, how could you? he did cheat with a married woman once! As for your husband... was this a one time deal with just this one other guy? was it just the sex or did you emotionally cheat on your husband? maby he isnt satisfying your needs physically and emotionally. dont look for someone who Makes you happy....go for someone that is happy with themselves and that will allow you to be yourhappy self.
You need therapy. You don't know why you ended your marriage and neither does your ex-hubby. That situation needs to be resolved. As for your ex-bf, how do you know he's Mr. Right and not Mr. Right-Now? Personally, you need to spend sometime away from both of them. Collect yourself or seek therapy.
honestly ur perdicument is way to messy..........if i were you i would quit both and start over with someone new. too many disappointments and hard feelings and lies involved in the other two relationships......
Sure you are afraid, how can you use so many people at a time in life. You should take your heart wherevfer it belongs and leave these guys alone. Maybe the fear is that one or both of them might object to your behavior, at the same time!
Well, my question to you.....is who do you want to be with? If you want the boyfriend, go on back to him. But you need to make a choice. You could also choose to leave them both alone and go find someone new/fresh. The choice is yours. Good luck.
You need to choose how your heart really belongs with. Think about who you can trust and love forever, who you are really going to be happy with, but i would make a choice now and not play eaither of them. and if you cant make a choice drop them both and move on.
my question is my ex bf still inlove with me %26amp; we still talk but he doesn't know that i live with my ex husband. what should i do? I'm still inlove with him but deep inside i am afraid. thank you for you time reading my problem...I live with my ex husband. we live as a couple but my heart belongs to my ex boy friend. i need your advice?
You need to leave them both alone and start working on you. Step out of the situation so you can get it together.I live with my ex husband. we live as a couple but my heart belongs to my ex boy friend. i need your advice?
you should think about this....What would make ME happy.... if you are happy with yourself then you will know who would keep that happiness flowing... if you are with someone that has cheated with you while he knew you where married....do you really think he wont do the same to you? This bf has got to go! you need to cut all ties and as hard as it will be(trust me ive been through this) you will never fully trust this bf, how could you? he did cheat with a married woman once! As for your husband... was this a one time deal with just this one other guy? was it just the sex or did you emotionally cheat on your husband? maby he isnt satisfying your needs physically and emotionally. dont look for someone who Makes you happy....go for someone that is happy with themselves and that will allow you to be yourhappy self.
You need therapy. You don't know why you ended your marriage and neither does your ex-hubby. That situation needs to be resolved. As for your ex-bf, how do you know he's Mr. Right and not Mr. Right-Now? Personally, you need to spend sometime away from both of them. Collect yourself or seek therapy.
honestly ur perdicument is way to messy..........if i were you i would quit both and start over with someone new. too many disappointments and hard feelings and lies involved in the other two relationships......
Sure you are afraid, how can you use so many people at a time in life. You should take your heart wherevfer it belongs and leave these guys alone. Maybe the fear is that one or both of them might object to your behavior, at the same time!
Well, my question to you.....is who do you want to be with? If you want the boyfriend, go on back to him. But you need to make a choice. You could also choose to leave them both alone and go find someone new/fresh. The choice is yours. Good luck.
You need to choose how your heart really belongs with. Think about who you can trust and love forever, who you are really going to be happy with, but i would make a choice now and not play eaither of them. and if you cant make a choice drop them both and move on.
Yeah! I just had my baby boy last week and now I have a couple concerns If I could plz get some good advice?
I know I shouldn't really be complaining about this but he is ALWAYS asleep. I am pumping so much just to keep up my supply. Is this normal? He has many wet and poopy diapers. He was 3 weeks early but I was 37 weeks exactly when my water broke last Wednesday. Another concern I have is when he sleeps I catch him opening his eyes half way and he'll start to roll his eyes constantly. He does this a lot, is this normal? Thxs.Yeah! I just had my baby boy last week and now I have a couple concerns If I could plz get some good advice?
you sound just like i did.... almost 4 months ago... :) i even had my son as early as you did but....
it is normal to be sleeping A LOT. the only thing you should start to try to adjust though is the daytime sleeping. naps are normal, and he should still be sleeping the majority of the day... but try to keep it loud and bright. keep him stimulated as much as possible. this will show him ';LIGHT and LOUD and FUN'; is daytime.. ';QUIET and DARK and NO PLAY'; is nightime... or sleep time. :)
and dylan did the SAME thing with the eyes.. some people would be holding him and he'd be lookin at them 'laughing' and theyd be like awww hes smiling at me!! and i was like umm no.. hes asleep and dreaming.. haha.
its normal for them to have their eyes open. the rolling is when they are in REM sleep (RAPID EYE MOVEMENT).. which is the deepest sleep. i asked a couple doctors about because i was afraid i had a freak baby :) or that he was having a medical issue *seizures, etc.) and they just smiled and said that its the nerves and the muscles, and that he'll grow out of it.. and by 2 years he'll be sleepin with his eyes shut.
hes 4 months now and he rarely has his eyes open!! so dont worry about that ...
circumcision.. keep the vaseline on the diaper by his penis, it'll help keep it from getting 'stuck' to the diaper, and it's a lot more comfortable for him. i would say that dylan's was healed by the time his cord fell off... thats when they say it should be healed. make sure, once it's not as irritated, to pull back the skin a gently wipe underneath. fuzz and other stuff can get trapped under there.
if its red, it's usually okay too. if you start to see a lot of greenish discharge or bleeding, contact his pediatrician. its better to be safe than sorry.. but all in all, have fun, good luck, and congratulations on your little angel boy! :) Yeah! I just had my baby boy last week and now I have a couple concerns If I could plz get some good advice?
It bring a smile to my face when I read your question, but then I remember myself, when my first child was born. You look for anything and everything. You just want them to be OK. :)
It's normal for a child that age to have his eyes half way open. I've heard even older kids do it. The baby will sleep and only wake up for feeding. He will stay up longer in a week, but not too long. Let him sleep, that's when they grow. If he's eating good and his diaper is filled as you described -- appropriately, then he's just fine.
they generally will sleep a lot early on. I know it's concerning I felt the same way but take it while you can get it. My son (now 3 1/2 mos old) won't sleep at all during the day and is just a little terror at times. Enjoy the time now. My son also did and still does the eyes half open rolling back thing. It's creepy. but apparently very normal too.
My sons circumsision took about a week to heal completely. Even now it is sometimes red looking but I'm told its totally normal. He was snipped when he was 4 wks.
Congrats on your new baby and good luck:)
Everything you're saying is totally normal! My little man was 3 weeks early also. The sleeping all the time won't last forever! Haha. And the rolling of the eyes and opening one eye is something that their nerves do since they're still so new and developing. My son is 7 weeks and he doesn't do it as much but still occasionally. The circumcision takes about 7-12 days to heal! Congrats on your little man!!!
Yes, it's normal if he opens his eyes while he's asleep. My fiance's nephew did the same when he was a baby and it creeped my fiance out :)
As for the pumping- if you nurse baby on demand, you don't need to pump all the time to keep up your supply. Don't stress so much about it. Is baby eating 8-10 times a day? If he's got enough wet diapers, I'm sure you're fine. Don't stress about pumping :) You might end up with an over-supply and that's a pain in the boob to fix.
Congrats!!
I almost laughed reading this. I felt the same way. Enjoy the quiet time while you have it. Soon he will be all over, and will not want to sleep ever. My son at 6 months I am lucky if he takes 2 30 min naps a day, but again he barely wakes up at night at all. As you have said there are enough wet diapers, and poop diapers, so no need to worry, soon he will be all over everything, and will be fighting to not sleep. :) Good luck with your little blessing.
P.S. Good job on being a good mommy, I know it is odd to be so worried all the time. :)
My son was born at 38 weeks. He slept so much! I was so worried I talked to my doctor about it. He told me ';enjoy it while you can.'; He was right I now have an incredibly active healthy 31/2 year old. I also have a one year old daughter that does the whole eye rolling thing. It kind of freaks me out too! However the doctor says it is normal (sometimes I just close her eyelids with my fingers and they stay that way.) It sounds like everything is normal to me. Don't let yourself get stressed it will hurt your milk supply. As for the circumcision as long as it 's not red or angry looking , sometimes they can take a long time to heal. Good luck!
The sleeping thing is totally fine, sounds just like my son was for the first month. Congrats on breastfeeding!! The circumcision, well I don't believe in it but I do know to watch out for any bright redness, puss, or swelling, that are signs of infection (that happened with my nephew). Good luck with your new baby!
yeah he is fine! my daughter slept constantly the peeking and eye rolling is just there way of seeing there surroundings don't worry! i was the same way. but now that my daughter is going on 8 months i wish she would sleep more. just keep pumping to keep up your supply if you have any questions call your doctor that's what they are there for no questions are stupid questions when it comes to a baby. as long as he has wet diapers he is good!
Yes, it's normal! Babies sleep...that's all there is to it! When I had my daughter she would sleep for probably 22 out of the 24 hours in a day! As your son gets older he will stay awake longer and not sleep as much! And as far as him opening his eyes and rolling them...that's normal too! All kids do it...heck, my husband still sleeps with his eyes half open sometimes! LOL! It's completely normal, but if you want to ask a doctor just to reassure yourself then that wouldn't hurt either! Hope I helped...
Premies and alot of newborns will sleep alot at first. Get your rest now while you can because this will not last along time.Do not be concerned about his opening of his eyes. As he gets older, alot of this will disappear. Enjoy him, he will not be small like this forever. Good luck.
your aloud to be concerned ..but with him rolling his eyes..we all do it..but the difference is nobody is watching us sleep..hhahaha. Its totally normal my daughter did it..hes just dreaming and YES its normal for him to always sleeping!! jus wait till hes 3 months old and starts to take 20min power naps...congrats on the new one!
very normal after you baby is out he is very tired because going through the birth process is alot of work on them and they are just very tired expect that for a few more weeks
Enjoy all the sleeping your baby is doing now...because it won't last,there will come a day you will wish for the sleeping baby, like teething time.
Its all normal ;)
Congrats!
babies will eat when they r hungry and the rolling of the eyes is normal
you sound just like i did.... almost 4 months ago... :) i even had my son as early as you did but....
it is normal to be sleeping A LOT. the only thing you should start to try to adjust though is the daytime sleeping. naps are normal, and he should still be sleeping the majority of the day... but try to keep it loud and bright. keep him stimulated as much as possible. this will show him ';LIGHT and LOUD and FUN'; is daytime.. ';QUIET and DARK and NO PLAY'; is nightime... or sleep time. :)
and dylan did the SAME thing with the eyes.. some people would be holding him and he'd be lookin at them 'laughing' and theyd be like awww hes smiling at me!! and i was like umm no.. hes asleep and dreaming.. haha.
its normal for them to have their eyes open. the rolling is when they are in REM sleep (RAPID EYE MOVEMENT).. which is the deepest sleep. i asked a couple doctors about because i was afraid i had a freak baby :) or that he was having a medical issue *seizures, etc.) and they just smiled and said that its the nerves and the muscles, and that he'll grow out of it.. and by 2 years he'll be sleepin with his eyes shut.
hes 4 months now and he rarely has his eyes open!! so dont worry about that ...
circumcision.. keep the vaseline on the diaper by his penis, it'll help keep it from getting 'stuck' to the diaper, and it's a lot more comfortable for him. i would say that dylan's was healed by the time his cord fell off... thats when they say it should be healed. make sure, once it's not as irritated, to pull back the skin a gently wipe underneath. fuzz and other stuff can get trapped under there.
if its red, it's usually okay too. if you start to see a lot of greenish discharge or bleeding, contact his pediatrician. its better to be safe than sorry.. but all in all, have fun, good luck, and congratulations on your little angel boy! :) Yeah! I just had my baby boy last week and now I have a couple concerns If I could plz get some good advice?
It bring a smile to my face when I read your question, but then I remember myself, when my first child was born. You look for anything and everything. You just want them to be OK. :)
It's normal for a child that age to have his eyes half way open. I've heard even older kids do it. The baby will sleep and only wake up for feeding. He will stay up longer in a week, but not too long. Let him sleep, that's when they grow. If he's eating good and his diaper is filled as you described -- appropriately, then he's just fine.
they generally will sleep a lot early on. I know it's concerning I felt the same way but take it while you can get it. My son (now 3 1/2 mos old) won't sleep at all during the day and is just a little terror at times. Enjoy the time now. My son also did and still does the eyes half open rolling back thing. It's creepy. but apparently very normal too.
My sons circumsision took about a week to heal completely. Even now it is sometimes red looking but I'm told its totally normal. He was snipped when he was 4 wks.
Congrats on your new baby and good luck:)
Everything you're saying is totally normal! My little man was 3 weeks early also. The sleeping all the time won't last forever! Haha. And the rolling of the eyes and opening one eye is something that their nerves do since they're still so new and developing. My son is 7 weeks and he doesn't do it as much but still occasionally. The circumcision takes about 7-12 days to heal! Congrats on your little man!!!
Yes, it's normal if he opens his eyes while he's asleep. My fiance's nephew did the same when he was a baby and it creeped my fiance out :)
As for the pumping- if you nurse baby on demand, you don't need to pump all the time to keep up your supply. Don't stress so much about it. Is baby eating 8-10 times a day? If he's got enough wet diapers, I'm sure you're fine. Don't stress about pumping :) You might end up with an over-supply and that's a pain in the boob to fix.
Congrats!!
I almost laughed reading this. I felt the same way. Enjoy the quiet time while you have it. Soon he will be all over, and will not want to sleep ever. My son at 6 months I am lucky if he takes 2 30 min naps a day, but again he barely wakes up at night at all. As you have said there are enough wet diapers, and poop diapers, so no need to worry, soon he will be all over everything, and will be fighting to not sleep. :) Good luck with your little blessing.
P.S. Good job on being a good mommy, I know it is odd to be so worried all the time. :)
My son was born at 38 weeks. He slept so much! I was so worried I talked to my doctor about it. He told me ';enjoy it while you can.'; He was right I now have an incredibly active healthy 31/2 year old. I also have a one year old daughter that does the whole eye rolling thing. It kind of freaks me out too! However the doctor says it is normal (sometimes I just close her eyelids with my fingers and they stay that way.) It sounds like everything is normal to me. Don't let yourself get stressed it will hurt your milk supply. As for the circumcision as long as it 's not red or angry looking , sometimes they can take a long time to heal. Good luck!
The sleeping thing is totally fine, sounds just like my son was for the first month. Congrats on breastfeeding!! The circumcision, well I don't believe in it but I do know to watch out for any bright redness, puss, or swelling, that are signs of infection (that happened with my nephew). Good luck with your new baby!
yeah he is fine! my daughter slept constantly the peeking and eye rolling is just there way of seeing there surroundings don't worry! i was the same way. but now that my daughter is going on 8 months i wish she would sleep more. just keep pumping to keep up your supply if you have any questions call your doctor that's what they are there for no questions are stupid questions when it comes to a baby. as long as he has wet diapers he is good!
Yes, it's normal! Babies sleep...that's all there is to it! When I had my daughter she would sleep for probably 22 out of the 24 hours in a day! As your son gets older he will stay awake longer and not sleep as much! And as far as him opening his eyes and rolling them...that's normal too! All kids do it...heck, my husband still sleeps with his eyes half open sometimes! LOL! It's completely normal, but if you want to ask a doctor just to reassure yourself then that wouldn't hurt either! Hope I helped...
Premies and alot of newborns will sleep alot at first. Get your rest now while you can because this will not last along time.Do not be concerned about his opening of his eyes. As he gets older, alot of this will disappear. Enjoy him, he will not be small like this forever. Good luck.
your aloud to be concerned ..but with him rolling his eyes..we all do it..but the difference is nobody is watching us sleep..hhahaha. Its totally normal my daughter did it..hes just dreaming and YES its normal for him to always sleeping!! jus wait till hes 3 months old and starts to take 20min power naps...congrats on the new one!
very normal after you baby is out he is very tired because going through the birth process is alot of work on them and they are just very tired expect that for a few more weeks
Enjoy all the sleeping your baby is doing now...because it won't last,there will come a day you will wish for the sleeping baby, like teething time.
Its all normal ;)
Congrats!
babies will eat when they r hungry and the rolling of the eyes is normal
Dating Advice..In a Tough Spot.Never officially said we are a couple either...HELP!!!?
Ok, so I have been seeing a guy since mid March. We spend ALOT of time together. He invites me to stay at his place for almost a week at a time. We have been intimate earlier in the dating, but not so much lately. I help him keep his home clean, he uses my car cause he dont have one, and I take him to work. I basically am TOO good to him I guess. We havent fought or anything.
When he introduces me to people, he calls me his ';girl';. Not girlfriend. I dont know what he means. But yesterday after I took him to work to come home, he kissed me and things seemed ok. I have been a little suspicious of him. No reason to be(except he keeps his cell with him ALL the time, like he is scared Im gonna see something).
I made a ';fake'; myspace page and added him. He wrote me, told ';her'; she was attractive and seemed interesting. Wanted to chat more. Even told her he was going to this bar in the town he lives in, and wondered if she had ever been there. ';She'; asked him if he was single, he said yes and sked if she was.
What am I supposed to make of this? I know what I did seems a little overboard,. Do you think I was almost asking for it by doing this? The girl in the pics was hot, and his type. And had same interests as him. I have not heard from him at all today which is strange.
Please just tell me..what do i do? I could use some help. Thanks guys!Dating Advice..In a Tough Spot.Never officially said we are a couple either...HELP!!!?
He's playing you. The best thing for you would be to move on and don't look back. No matter how great a guy he is, if he's so willing to ';un-attach'; himself to a stranger online then he isn't really in a relationship with you. Sorry.Dating Advice..In a Tough Spot.Never officially said we are a couple either...HELP!!!?
Try http://www.RelationshipFrontiers.com
When he introduces me to people, he calls me his ';girl';. Not girlfriend. I dont know what he means. But yesterday after I took him to work to come home, he kissed me and things seemed ok. I have been a little suspicious of him. No reason to be(except he keeps his cell with him ALL the time, like he is scared Im gonna see something).
I made a ';fake'; myspace page and added him. He wrote me, told ';her'; she was attractive and seemed interesting. Wanted to chat more. Even told her he was going to this bar in the town he lives in, and wondered if she had ever been there. ';She'; asked him if he was single, he said yes and sked if she was.
What am I supposed to make of this? I know what I did seems a little overboard,. Do you think I was almost asking for it by doing this? The girl in the pics was hot, and his type. And had same interests as him. I have not heard from him at all today which is strange.
Please just tell me..what do i do? I could use some help. Thanks guys!Dating Advice..In a Tough Spot.Never officially said we are a couple either...HELP!!!?
He's playing you. The best thing for you would be to move on and don't look back. No matter how great a guy he is, if he's so willing to ';un-attach'; himself to a stranger online then he isn't really in a relationship with you. Sorry.Dating Advice..In a Tough Spot.Never officially said we are a couple either...HELP!!!?
Try http://www.RelationshipFrontiers.com
What is your financial advice for a soon to be married 24 year old couple?
My fiance and I are getting married 10/31/2008. We rent an apartment. We have a car loan, a personal loan, and I have a credit card. We owe about $25,000 in debt because of the loans and credit card. The interest on each is over 25% APR. We don't have any children yet. We have about $40 in savings. We have a keep the change account. We have $1,000 in a checking account. Which we still need to pay some bills out of that money. We make about $2,700 a month. We've paid all our bills on time for the last year. We don't have a 401K, IRA, CD, mutual funds, or stock. We would like to retire around 65. Both our credit scores are under 620. What can we do to improve our financial situation?What is your financial advice for a soon to be married 24 year old couple?
Work hard and save for a rainy day..What is your financial advice for a soon to be married 24 year old couple?
Combined put no less then 10% of your income in a retirement fund. More if possible, no less. Put 5% in a college fund, I learned that too late and will be paying interest loans off for the kids for 10 year on my share and they on theirs.
Being as both these funds can be deducted as tax deffered it will not cost as much as the math shows at 15%. Learn to do with out that little now or a lot later.
you need to learn to stop useing credit cards pay off car and try to be cheap skates as much as possible you will be much happier later hold off on a house till you can afford to pay at least 6 months of house payments with your savings just incase your job ever goes south
Get rid of them loans as a first priority and until you do, make sure you use contraception.
the other poster are correct.
However, here is a major problem with any goals that you have for saving and paying off debt.
You only earn 32,000 a year (if your figure was after taxes) or less then 40k a year before taxes.
You must focus on ways to increase your income. At 24 y/o, you need to think about additional education. Either college or trade school. Spend the next several years going back to school at night.
Spend the next several years living as cheaply as possible. Have your husband and you make a game out of it. Love isn't something that you have to buy.
You need a nest egg. Congratulations on your wedding too.
Before you get married, open a 401k with each of your employers. Put in a minimum amount of 3% each pay period. This is in case (Sorry) sometime in the future, you guys part ways. You wouldn't be able to make a claim on the others retirement.
Before or after you get married, open an IRA. I think the minimum deposit is $1,000 with most banks.
A 401k isn't enough to secure your future. You should each open an IRA.
Keep paying your bills on time and keep the credit card expenses to emergencies.
I wouldn't advise buying a house anytime soon even thought the prices are low. As it is, you barely have enough to save. A house also comes with additional expenses.
Shopping wise, wait on the clearance sales. Grocery-wise, buy the store brands and not the popular name brands (Most of the store brands are made by the same makers anyway). If you're having to eat out at a restaurant, find out what their larger dishes are and share. Keep the going out to a minimum once a month. Forget the fancy coffee. Take your coffee money and put it in a jar somewhere in case you need extra cash.
Go pick up a book about saving for the long term.
You absolutely positively HAVE to pay off the loans and CC's with the 25 % APR. Find the cheapest rent, ditch the car for one that runs but you can afford right now (Like 1500 or less). Write down all of your absolute expenses for the month like rent, electric and food and cut every other thing that is not a life's necessity OUT until the debt is paid off and you have at least 6 months of living expense money stowed away. That means no eating out, going to movies, buying clothes or impulse items at the store. At the grocery you shop the sales for the week and menu plan around them. Learn to extend food, eat rice and beans and buy things that are getting ready to be tossed. Do not take out any more credit, sign for any more loans. If you can, go get a second job (both of you) until you get the debt paid.
I KNOW that may sound ridiculous, but it isn't. You cannot possibly save for family and home much less retirement with that debt hanging over you. You two will feel like a million bucks when it is paid and you are free.
also - pack the lunch, write down every last cent that you spend and you and your husband sit down every week and review it to see how you did, how to improve and to make sure you two are on the same page.
Financial hardships are a big reason why people split. it is stressful and rough on love (esp. new marriage when there are already new stresses). Sit down with your guy, give yourselves a pep talk, write down your expenses and plan on paying it off and start immediately.
Good luck and congrats
The biggest thing is how you live, your saving/spending habits. You will need to establish good money habits. Make a budget and live by it. Live on less than you make.
Debt usually plays against you when you are trying to build wealth so that is the first thing to go. Dump as much money as you can towards the debt. If you are really serious about building wealth get rid of you car and buy a car you can afford. Cars don't appreciate in value but depreciate so they are a terrible thing to buy if you are trying to build wealth. If you can't pay for it you can't afford it therefore don't buy it.
You should check out daveramsey.com
Work hard and save for a rainy day..What is your financial advice for a soon to be married 24 year old couple?
Combined put no less then 10% of your income in a retirement fund. More if possible, no less. Put 5% in a college fund, I learned that too late and will be paying interest loans off for the kids for 10 year on my share and they on theirs.
Being as both these funds can be deducted as tax deffered it will not cost as much as the math shows at 15%. Learn to do with out that little now or a lot later.
you need to learn to stop useing credit cards pay off car and try to be cheap skates as much as possible you will be much happier later hold off on a house till you can afford to pay at least 6 months of house payments with your savings just incase your job ever goes south
Get rid of them loans as a first priority and until you do, make sure you use contraception.
the other poster are correct.
However, here is a major problem with any goals that you have for saving and paying off debt.
You only earn 32,000 a year (if your figure was after taxes) or less then 40k a year before taxes.
You must focus on ways to increase your income. At 24 y/o, you need to think about additional education. Either college or trade school. Spend the next several years going back to school at night.
Spend the next several years living as cheaply as possible. Have your husband and you make a game out of it. Love isn't something that you have to buy.
You need a nest egg. Congratulations on your wedding too.
Before you get married, open a 401k with each of your employers. Put in a minimum amount of 3% each pay period. This is in case (Sorry) sometime in the future, you guys part ways. You wouldn't be able to make a claim on the others retirement.
Before or after you get married, open an IRA. I think the minimum deposit is $1,000 with most banks.
A 401k isn't enough to secure your future. You should each open an IRA.
Keep paying your bills on time and keep the credit card expenses to emergencies.
I wouldn't advise buying a house anytime soon even thought the prices are low. As it is, you barely have enough to save. A house also comes with additional expenses.
Shopping wise, wait on the clearance sales. Grocery-wise, buy the store brands and not the popular name brands (Most of the store brands are made by the same makers anyway). If you're having to eat out at a restaurant, find out what their larger dishes are and share. Keep the going out to a minimum once a month. Forget the fancy coffee. Take your coffee money and put it in a jar somewhere in case you need extra cash.
Go pick up a book about saving for the long term.
You absolutely positively HAVE to pay off the loans and CC's with the 25 % APR. Find the cheapest rent, ditch the car for one that runs but you can afford right now (Like 1500 or less). Write down all of your absolute expenses for the month like rent, electric and food and cut every other thing that is not a life's necessity OUT until the debt is paid off and you have at least 6 months of living expense money stowed away. That means no eating out, going to movies, buying clothes or impulse items at the store. At the grocery you shop the sales for the week and menu plan around them. Learn to extend food, eat rice and beans and buy things that are getting ready to be tossed. Do not take out any more credit, sign for any more loans. If you can, go get a second job (both of you) until you get the debt paid.
I KNOW that may sound ridiculous, but it isn't. You cannot possibly save for family and home much less retirement with that debt hanging over you. You two will feel like a million bucks when it is paid and you are free.
also - pack the lunch, write down every last cent that you spend and you and your husband sit down every week and review it to see how you did, how to improve and to make sure you two are on the same page.
Financial hardships are a big reason why people split. it is stressful and rough on love (esp. new marriage when there are already new stresses). Sit down with your guy, give yourselves a pep talk, write down your expenses and plan on paying it off and start immediately.
Good luck and congrats
The biggest thing is how you live, your saving/spending habits. You will need to establish good money habits. Make a budget and live by it. Live on less than you make.
Debt usually plays against you when you are trying to build wealth so that is the first thing to go. Dump as much money as you can towards the debt. If you are really serious about building wealth get rid of you car and buy a car you can afford. Cars don't appreciate in value but depreciate so they are a terrible thing to buy if you are trying to build wealth. If you can't pay for it you can't afford it therefore don't buy it.
You should check out daveramsey.com
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