Mix relig, couples I need help!can not find good reason to have faith in god, fiance sad/worried. Any advice?

My fiance just recently, durring some hard times has found god again and is immensely worried about our afterlives. I have never found a need to believe in god and especialy not in the rules of her religion, shes catholic. She is sad because I can not share in her enthusiasim for religion and she is worried I will be damned to hell when I die. I get where she is coming from but as of now I still dont see a need to believe other than to please her and for the selfish reason of wanting to spend the rest of eternity with her in heaven.





I would like to hear from anyone but especialy from people in mixed religion relationships (one believes in one thing while the other believes in something entierly diff. or nothing at all) on how you would or do deal with a situation like this. Could you be happy if your significant other belived diffrently or, are you happy if this is your life? Any help is appreciated, thank you.Mix relig, couples I need help!can not find good reason to have faith in god, fiance sad/worried. Any advice?
hmm while me and my soon-to-be ex wife are both atheists or at least I am an atheist and she might be an agnostic instead, I will say this...


if you really love her then if I were you, I would talk it out and tell her exactly what you want. if you dont want to change your views(cause thats what itsounds like) either she needs to respect that part of you or you need to find someone that does. Relationships are always about compromise, but honestly I wouldnt want to sell myself short just for love...Mix relig, couples I need help!can not find good reason to have faith in god, fiance sad/worried. Any advice?
Dump her. Run as fast as you can and never look back!
Scripture says that the faith of a believing wife can sanctify the unbelieving husband.


Church can not save you nor attending church but it is how you worship God that saves you. It's not the building or religion that saves either. Catholic, Baptist, Seventh day Adventist, Christians etc. are all different translation of the same ';Jesus Christ';.


Religion involves Rule's and Regulations and the different religions have different R%26amp;R. So it's not where you worship its how you worship. Church is supposed to be the place where you will get information on how to worship God, but be carefull whose teaching what.


Don't get me wrong, I am not trying to discourage you from attending church with your fiance, I am trying to encourage you to worship God in Correctness. 1Corinthians 13 is one of the best places to get one's bearing.


There is one thing that's in your favor..... A woman that takes worshipping Christ serious will never cheat on you, but the down side is religion. Some churches do teach unmarried couples that sleeping together without being married is a sin. But there is a remedy to this dilema.


So I wish you well and I hope that you both find God and happiness together.