What is the BEST advice u can give for us couple who had a hard time having a baby?

My spouse has a low sperm count and me - irregular menstruation.What is the BEST advice u can give for us couple who had a hard time having a baby?
My husband and I were married 11 years before we got pregnant. 3 years before I became pregnant my doctor said that my chances of becoming pregnant ';though not impossible was highly improbable'; I had several factors going against me: PCOS(irregular periods is part of this), overweight, diabetic, high blood pressure and my age. I finally admitted to myself that it wasn't go to happen. I quit thinking about it, crying about it and being angry about the situation. Then back in Feb. 08 I felt different, not sick, just something felt different. I went to my doctor where I had my prescriptions refilled, went the drug store, paid to have them filled and on a lark I bought a pregnancy test - just to be safe. I took it that night and I was pregnant. Despite my Doctor asking me at one point ';are you the poster-child for high risk pregnancy?'; My son was born at 36 weeks October 08. I was 38 when he was born and turned 39, 11 days later.


My advice, and perhaps it's contradictory. Relax, try not to stress about what is or is not happening. Don't view every period that comes as a failure to be mourned. Keep a positive attitude. And at the same take care of yourself as if tomorrow you're going to become pregnant. Eat right, exercise do whatever you can to make your body ready to carry that baby. Any underlying medical conditions, work on getting them sorted. Trust me, the healthier you are before you become pregnant the better it will go for you. I was caught by surprise and everyday was a day I worried about my health ending my pregnancy.


The book: What to Expect when Your Expecting has a a few chapters on things to do before you become pregnant. If might worth a look. Also, getting your health in check now will also play to your advantage if you at some point seek medical help in getting pregnant. Good LuckWhat is the BEST advice u can give for us couple who had a hard time having a baby?
I suppose you are asking abt how to have baby,infertility, Right?


You should visit Dr Christopher Chen,he is very popular for IVF / fertility services .


Well known and He has published widely in medical journals and books .Visit him to have a discussion.
Well you've had the baby so just the same advise you's give to anyone, but with a bit of extra congratulations.
Make sure you get your sleep when baby is sleeping!