What is the best advice you could give a newly married couple?

Keep the lines of communication open at all times. Be patient with each other. Learn the difference between knowing what to say and knowing ';when'; to say it. Let go of your desire to be right all the time. Learn the difference between hearing each other and really listening to what the other person has to say. When you do fight, fight fairly, in a calm and cool headed manner and don't sweat the small stuff. Spend as much time as possible but learn to give each other space to do your own thing. Support each other's growth and remember that your commitment to each other doesn't end after the wedding ceremony. It starts everyday for the rest of your married lives...and last but not least...have lots of sex.What is the best advice you could give a newly married couple?
Just be patient and ignorant whenever needed


believe me that helps allot!!What is the best advice you could give a newly married couple?
dont cheat! unless your swingers and thats a totally different story..lol..
Allow each other the space to pursue their own interests and develop (and keep) their own friends, including friends of the opposite sex.. Or you will soon get bored of each other's company,
You people should be submissive to each other, share your worries together, play together, work hand to hand, correct the mistakes of each other, advice each other, see into each other's problem, trust each other, have confidence in each other, don't listen to what people may say about your partner if you really love him because the world is full of jealousy and people can destroy the two of you, always see before you believe do not hear and believe. Always be there fore each other and by so doing you will live happy for ever.
3 pieces of advice. always communicate, never go to bed mad at one another, and take money problems with a grain of salt. money is accounted for over half of divorces
Talk to each other about everything, and take care of each other's needs.





It's not easy, but when it is good, it is worth it.
Know you and know your spouse and love both completely. Compromise, communicate, and don't be afraid to have conversations that aren't romantic. Day to day living isn't romantic. Who's gonna take out the garbage or watch the kids isn't either, but it's something that is gonna come up and it's better to have a plan than to have to fight about it later. Also, discuss things that you're not supposed to talk about in ';polite conversation';. Religion, sex, politics, child rearing philosophies, and money. There's a lot that people don't think about in the first rush you get, but it's something that can cause many difficulties. There's also one more thing. Have a hobby, or a friend, or friends, something, anything that you can talk about that the other person doesn't already know about and that you can share with them. One of the big killers of marriages is boredom and one of the best ways to get bored with someone is to always know what they're going to say or do or think and finally to not care about any of it. Keep a little bit of a life of your own and you'll always have a little mystery.
get a pet that will provide for mundane conversation
just to enjoy every second you can ..


and try to make a love every time you can ,,








new dream











my heart...





my heart shout with happiness...


the lover came back again...


yearning to her meeting..


the heart fly hapiness ,and so happy to meet her...


meeting the lover , while the great gladness inside me ..


great happiness , which all lovers wish it ..


the lover came back again ..


again now we have our new dream...





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Talk, Talk and Listen Listen. COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHER AND LISTEN TO EACH OTHER WITHOUT FIGHTING.
Good communication.
The best advice i could give to a married couple would be to split everything down the middle. don't have one worship the other like a queen or king and you degrade yourself. you share the responsibilities.
If you have a falling out, just put it back in and keep going,LOL
Be honest and open with each other... Listen to each other... And have great sex let me tell you lol....
A marriage is like a country. It has it's checks and balances and departments. Divide the labor and make it explicit who has what responsibility.
seek Gods guidence in all your affairs,children are created from the ';dwell'; of love.Don't forget to seek the truth as to who your lord is.And always remember the things that you find soo cute in each other.
.1. Never both be angry at the same time.


.2. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.


.3. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate.


.4. If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.


.5. Never bring up mistakes of the past.


.6. Neglect the whole world rather than each other.


.7. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.


.8. At least once every day try to say one kind or complimentary


thing to your life's partner.


.9. When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and


ask for forgiveness.


.10. It takes two to make a quarrel, and the one in the wrong


is the one who does the most talking.





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Success to your relationship, Manuchopra.
I totally agree with Susan. My husband and I have been married for almost 26 years. Keep a sense of humor and respect and trust each other. Someone mentioned that you should divide everything 50/50. It can't always be that way. Let's say your husband needs 80% so give him that extra attention. Sometimes you might need maybe 90% so he should give YOU the extra attention that you need. Each of you should know when this happens. Talking and keeping the communication open is also important. Don't start fights and laugh at his jokes. My husband and I can still talk for hours and have fun together. Sorry for rambling but I think these things are important.
I completely agree with Circlometry. Biggest thing is to expect boredom. It would be great if our spouses were as interesting for hours upon end, but they aren't. If you expect the boredom to set in, you won't be as hurt by it, and you'll fight about it less.
Hi Lovers, The best advice is to be nice to 1 another.Always tell each other you love them, at least once a day.Do little things for each other.Like on saturdays and sundays,Lets let your hubby take saturday,So mommy can get up and cook you a nice breakfast and serve it in bed for you.Then sunday,daddy will get up and make a nice breakfast for you and serve it in bed for you.You want to keep the love and romance in your life to stay alive and keep you as 1.You much have trust and honesty to make your marriage work.Believe me i know,Just trust me.Always have laughter in your house.Have a loving and caring relationship.If your ever have something that bothers 1 another,Don't be afraid to tell each other before it becomes a BIG problem.You want to kick it in the A S S before it festures into something bigger.Always love and honor each other.Have a happy and loving life together.





A Friend Clowmy
trust and strong communication skills is the key to a happy healthy life good luck
Always put your marriage (partner) first. Always be in each other's corner. This isn't as easy as it sounds. For instance, if your family is angry with her for some reason, stick up for her! It doesn't matter if she is right or wrong. You can share your concerns with her later, in private. Marriage can be hard and tedious, you have to put it first for it to be successful! It can also be wonderful!





Congratulations! May you love each other always!
Get a pre-nuptial agreement. Have sex 3 to 4 times a week. Go out to dinner at least 1 to 2 times a week and share house chores. Save a lot of money for a rainy day and buy your dream home if you're able.
Go to marital counseling - even if everything is going great. There are skills that are not part of our normal education that can help us make our marriages even more successful and positive.
Trust, onset %26amp; love , felling as the one
cute photo..um i dont know not married
Make love not babies
dont spend too much time together


but do try lots of new things together


CONNECT
KEEP ALL MONEY SEPERATE.. seperate checking accounts, seperate savings... etc.. that way when and or IF you divorce it saves the hassle. Personally I have been married over 17 years.. but we seldom argue over money which as ANY marriage councelor will tell you is what 90% of young married couples fight over.. the other 10 is sex.. can't help you there.. you either do it or you dont..OHHHH one more bit of advise... NEVER and I mean NEVER go to the bathroom either # 1 or #2 in front of your spouse.. that is just gross.. and if you walk in on them accidently.. GET OUT..
See the future not the past. Have the patience, understanding and try to make sacrifices for each other. Also try to respect each others views and u wan tot fight have healthy fight !!





Wishing u a vry happy married life!!