I've been 2 guys, 1 for 3years and the other for a couple of months and i'm in love with both in need advice!

Don't cheat or it'll blow up in your face, nevertheless it's 'wrong' to do it in the first place!I've been 2 guys, 1 for 3years and the other for a couple of months and i'm in love with both in need advice!
Girl you can't eat your cake and have it too. You need to do the right thing and let one go. You are digging a huge hole for yourself the longer you allow this to go on. You can either let one go or end up losing both. The choice is yours..Good luckI've been 2 guys, 1 for 3years and the other for a couple of months and i'm in love with both in need advice!
Have them both move in with you.. Simple
find someone else!
I smell a threesome...
Well, I guess you are busy!! Need to decide whom you really want to settle with, if not, you will hurt both of them. Remember who harvests the wind will inherited tornados!!!
My only advice to you is to not be a whore. If you feel that you cannot stop being a whore then your only avenue is to drop out of your pitiful existence.
Define love.
figure out which one truely loves you back.





unconditional love that is returned is true love
In this case you are not a directed kind of person. Remember you may hurt them if you';ll not decide. If you really love them the way you do, you may not want any of the to be hurt. So decide now before it's to late. You might lost them both. I tell you it's more painful. BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE!!!!!!
are u sure u really know the one u've been involved w/ for 3 mons?????? evevn if you've had problems w/ the guy u've been w/ for 3 yrs, u must realize what u go through makes a relationship stronger. don't throw away something or someone you have history with.because if so the new one may shock u w/ some **** u never thought he was capable of.TRUST!!!! i've been there. good luck
for starters you obviously cant be inlove with both otherwise you wouldnt have cheated on your partner of 3 years if u really loved him, your sombody who doesnt take love seriously and your messing with 2 heads at the moment, maybe you get kicks out of it but those to men probly have deep feelings wich your just playing around with, my advice for you is stop being a hoe.
I had this same problem i was in love with my husband and the guy i was cheating on him with i was with my husband for 7 years and the guy for 1 year and i was a fool and let my husband now i am sitting at home all alone do you get the picture it not good to cheat because in the long run you are the one getting hurt. But I hope everything works out for you.
1st of all, i think you don't know what's called real love? a true/real love can only occur on 1 person...i believe the new guy u had was only an infatuation..on the other hand, the other guy shd be your better choice bcoz not many r/s can last a gd 3 yrs! many couples end their r/s probably 0.5 or less than 1.5 yrs. Do treasure the right candidate and don't jump into another new r/s or commitment with your eye closed! if the 3 yr old guy wasn't that great, i believe you'd not hang out with him for tat long rite? let your mind %26amp; heart do the calculations....but if you really think the new guy seems more suitable for you, it's your choice...gd luck!
Think about what you want your future to be like. Which one will stand by you through thick and thin? Romantic love will fade in time, so you must have a foundation to build on for a lasting relationship.





I would choose the guy who has concrete plans, not the one who just wants to have fun.
go for the one you knew for 3 yrs.
i feel wat you feel i'm in the same situation. Just take control. Try to picture in ur head which one you see yourself with in the future. like getting married and having kids this for sure figures out wich one you love more. I know it's hard the best of luck to you.
You know that you can only love one. Who can have two ';masters.'; They will either love one and hate the other or despise one and love the other.
I don`t think you could be in love with both of them and I think you should end at least one relationship because you are risking losing both. decide who you like the best and don`t treat them the way you wouldn`t be like to be treated. What would YOU do if you have a boyfriend and he has 2 GIRLfriends?!
Well as You have cheated on your long term guy Id say that relationship was pretty screwed anyway. The fact that you have been gutless enough to keep cheating on him for over a month says that you cant possibly love him your jsut holding onto him as he is safe. He deserves better and I think you should shack up with the new guy until you get bored of him and go off with someone else like the little vile trollop you are.
well u hv to saty on the 1st guy cos some1 u knw 4 long is better dan the 1 u just knw.so gurl think abt it so dat u won't lost the both at the same time.
you should figure out which one you feel the closest too and go from there
drop the new 1
Mr. Chivalry says, ';Think about a few things. Which one makes you happier? Which one will make a better supporter? Which one will make a better life partner? Who is a better provider and protector?';





Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
THE KEY QUESTION IS WHICH one do you love the most? and which one is more compatable with you (the most like you)? Opposites dont attract for more than a year usually. If opposites stay together it is usually cuz they are both givers and full of compromise. Astrology books can help with compatability. I wish people would tell their sign in questions. Then I could help a little more. When you choose which one, then lose the other one and stick with the best one for you. Good luck.
3 years is a good track record.
Ok here is the formula to decide! How old are you? If your Age %26lt; 23 you dont know what the hell love is and you should not worry about it.!
go with someone who u think is worth going out with and someone that really loves u...


just think it over in ur heart and ur mind
three years invested-keep him
How do they feel about you? Do they know that the other existed? Obviously you were dating one first then cheated with the second one - most of the time people cheat because the person they are with isn't meeting certains needs. Maybe you don't really love the first guy as much as you think you do. Take some time away from both and think about it. Good luck.
leave da new 1