What advice can you give to a newly wedded couple?

Dont go to bed mad or with dirty dishes in the sink...What advice can you give to a newly wedded couple?
Listen to each other; give each other space; forgive each other; find a way to get out of the house and have fun, no matter how little money you may have; parks are free. Save a little money, even if it's only $5 a week - put it in an account and don't touch it unless it's literally a life-or-death situation, or unless you've reached a savings goal and are ready to buy something. Spend a little money on fun now and then, even if it's just an ice cream cone. If you want something big, like a house or a car, make a plan to get it - don't just say ';some day.'; Respect each other; never go to bed angry; hug each other at least once a day just because.





Mazel Tov!What advice can you give to a newly wedded couple?
Communicate!!!! Talk!!!! Listen!!!





Whether its about life, problems or sex.





If you don't you'll only end up keeping secrets from each other and that isn't good!





Listen. Remember there are two side/opinions.





Talk and there should be no misunderstandings, no deceit and nothing to hide.





Your relationship should grow stronger and you won't have to sit thinking what the other person is thinking/doing/hiding.
Always make time to be together.





Try and make things fun.





Start trying for a family straight away and have loads of children!!
My honest best advice is treat him the same as you wish to be treated! Seems simple right, well it's harder than it seems!


When his towel is in the middle of the floor after you've asked him 6 times to pick it up, but he still hasn't, think about how you would want him to speak to you, it the tables were turned! Seems simple, but it's hard to do when you're upset!


Second, appreciate him! Thanks him, dote (sp?) on him, tell him how wonderful he is and how great of a job he's doing! Never let him wonder if you appreciate him and all he does! And the same goes for the way he does you!


As soon as one of you feels underappreciated or taken for granted, problems will arise!


Third, learn to laugh! If it's not going to still be a problem in a few days, odds are, it's not worth getting upset over! So laugh at it instead!


Good luck with a happy life together!
Talk to each other about your worries - a problem share a problem halfed so they say
Communication! It doesn't have to be sitting down at the table talking, it can be in passing as you're walking to the bathroom. Always talk. Play games together, talk, laugh, surprise them with a gift or something. Keep it all fun. Except for finances, that's serious. We talked about my finances before marriage and it helped a LOT. We talked about everything...my past, his past, our parents, everything. Keep those lines of communication open.





I swore after my first marriage that I'd never find anyone else, but I did. I'm never going to ruin it.
compromise! talk about everything! love him like you want him to love you!





i'm getting married also and i need all the help i can get too. congrats on your first month!
The best advice given to me by a lady who celebrated her 60th wedding anniversary- I asked her how she made her marriage last so long and the dear lady replied '; we faced all the same problems that our friends and others did but we were just to stubborn to quit.'; At the time I laughed but now years later and many obstacles overcome I can see she was right. Every problem faced is a challenge and every challenged overcome makes the marriage deeper and stronger than it was before. Even things that seem impossible at the time will bind the relationship tighter through the years. Nothing that draws you outside your marriage will ever give the satisfaction years down the road as problems solved and overcome together. Best wishes to you.
i have been with my partner for nearly 15 years and are due to get married this august. He is my world, my partner and friend and companion, and i love him more than words can say, i tell him everthing and he supports me and vice versa, listen to each other, share things and most imprtantly say i love you to him eveyday even when your arguging.
be happy, and when you are not happy, talk about it!! Communication s the key to trust and all the other things that make a marriage work, without communication probelms will occur. Also have fun and do things together and appart. Time appart is good, but too much appart is bad get a balance. Good luck for the future!
What can I say!





Stay loyal and loving to one another and remember the original reason why you married.





Nothing really should change in the relationship... hence why you were married in the first place.





There should be plenty of love between one another the only thing that changes is the name.
Don't give 50-50, give 100-100
1) You fell in love with your spouse because of how he or she is, so don't try to change them.





2) Marriage shouldn't be like two people become Siamese twins. You both need to pursue your own interests, and keep looking for things to expand your mind and imagination as life goes on. Try travel, scuba diving, take a gourmet cooking class. Don't sit at home in front of the tv.





3) To the Husband: there is an old saying, ';Treat your wife like a thoroughbred, and she won't turn into a nag';. It's true.





4) To the Wife: Nagging will accomplish one thing. Your husband will eventually just stop listening to you. Don't nag.





5) Keep a sense of humor. If you argue, don't turn it into a screaming match.





6) Few things say you love someone more than a real, loving hug. A kiss is soon forgotten. A loving embrace is like a declaration of love.





7) Many young couples fight about money. Decide early on to have a financial plan, and stick to it. Don't be one of those couples that are always in financial peril. Talk now to a financial planner and a big cause of stress and tension will be removed.





8) Never say anything cruel to one another. Some things just can't be forgotten or forgiven.





9) Try consciously to have a fun, event-filled life. There used to be an commercial for the Army: ';If your life was a book, would anyone want to read it?';





10) Memories fade. Buy a really good camera, like the Canon XT Rebel, and take fotos often. In sad times, you can look at the photos and reminisce while planning another trip or family get together to add to your collection.
talk and listen!


Never go to bed angry or with something on your mind/heart. We have this motto...


';Marriage is 100% of both of us, 100% of the time';.


Try to pick your battles... some things are just not worth fighting over. Remember to respect one another in everything that you do. We still have date nights... even if it is just a movie. Find common interests and spend time doing those things together! Set goals... financial goals are a must... you can't live outside your means! Also, the first year is always the hardest... I promise it gets easier.
never go to bed angry.


talk and work out your problems.


hug every day.


support each other


be there in pain and happiness


trust


go on dates still


Romance does not have to die after the wedding.


tell each other that you appreciate one another
Give and take...!!!
Respect
congrats! i've been married for a little over a year. my parents have been married for 31 years. my dad says that the best advice is, ';don't keep score';. i tend to agree with that. i don't think that my hubby and i keep score and we are very happy. everyone has spats. when you fight with each other, just think of how much you love each other and why you got married and the problems usually dissipate a little quicker, the apologies coming more easily.





good luck!
I'm getting married in october and have been told the best advise is tolerance. Remeber your not perfect and when he's having a bad day that you could have one tommorrow. When he doesn't pull his weight, you might not tommorrow and when he makes a mistake it could be one you'll make too. Just know that some times you'll need to take a deep breath before you answer and that it's ok to not like each other very much sometimes, it doesn't mean you love each other any less.
teach your kids that your love is unconditional through example......everyone gets angry but nothing will affect your kids more and make them doubt the sacrament of marriage than staying up at night crying herself to sleeplistening to you fight
WELL CONGRATULATIONS. U BOTH TOOK A BIG STEP IN LIFE TOGETHER. THAT IS THE KEY-TOGETHER. IT IS NOW ABOUT WE THIS OR WE THAT. NO MORE I DID THIS OR I DID THAT. U ARE A FAMILY NOW THAT WILL GROW SOMEDAY. JUST REMEMBER THAT WITH TRUST NOTHING CAN GO WRONG NO MATTER HOW SMALL THE WORLD MAY SEEM. RESPECT EACH OTHER WITH A LOT OF LOVE AND SUPPORT. BE PATIENT AND CARING TO EACH OTHER FEELINGS. BE EACH OTHER'S BEST FRIEND. U NEED TO BE EQUAL IN EVERYTHING. ( INCLUDING CHORES) UNDERSTANDING EACH OTHER IS THE BEST PART OF A RELATIONSHIP. DO NOT FORGET TO DREAM THE IMPOSSIBLE. NEVER GO TO BED ANGRY WITH EACH OTHER. INSTEAD GIVE A LOT OF HUGS AND KISSES. PLAN THINGS TOGETHER. TRY TO GO ON A VACATION AT LEAST ONCE A YEAR. ONE MORE THING, COMMUNICATION IS A MUST. HAVE FUN AND GOOD LUCK.
compromise
I've received lots of marriage advice, and after nearly 4 years this is the most helpful one I've ever gotten.





';As long as you're not out of love with each other at the same time, you'll be fine';





There are going to be moments of doubt, anger, and sadness. As long as one of you is willing to fix things, you're going to be ok.
Do things alone or you'll end up resenting each other for being always in the way.
dont bottle things up. doing this causes problems, be open with one another
Never sleep on the couch if you are mad, it is your bed too. In all seriousness though always say I love you, and in the later years to do things to keep the sex exciting and never keep secrets.
You will have your ups and downs but as long as you stay in love that should get you through the bad times, there will be lots of good times. Good luck for the future.
Give each other space to do your own thing.





Don't be selfish and think only of yourself...remember you have a partner who has wants and needs too.





Sometimes its best to not say anything at all.





Don't have children until BOTH of you are ready to have them. That may mean that one of you has to wait another 1 or 2 years, but in the long run, you and the children will be better off.





My husband and I have been married for over 30 years and we found that the above things really helped during our marriage. If you love and respect each other, you will have a wonderful, long marriage. Good luck.
98% of all married couples that get divorced end up dead in a week.
Get some porn for your husband. It just a matter of time before the kids and the laziness sits in for the women.