im 15 and i have a lot of guys that like me
im 5 foot 1,
brunette,
i have blue/green/grey/yellow/brown eyes,
i wear a size 3 in pants but i am skinny(i have a big butt)
and i wear a c cup.
well what do guys look for?
and also
does anyone know how to get softer skin?
how to get rid of forehead acne?
why do i get horny when im just with my boyfriend?
and does anyone have makeup advice??Does anybody have advice on a couple things?
guys look for confidence
softer skin-use an exfoliator and a good lotion daily
Clinique makes some great acne products. Don't over-cleanse or that can irritate acne. After you condition your hair, wash you face because the conditioner can break you out..Also, don't go to bed without washing your make up off.
You're attracted to him and have feelings for him...use protection if you are active with him
Keep the makeup simple with just a few items. If you make up your eyes, don't wear dark lipstick and vice versaDoes anybody have advice on a couple things?
You sound cute, I'm sure tons of guys look for girls like you!
Softer skin? Make sure you moisturize after your face-washing routine. I recommend something gentle like Cetaphil (get it at any drugstore).
Forehead acne? Get a product for on-the-spot treatment (try Clearasil, also available at your local drugstore). Look for the words ';benzoyl-peroxide'; and only use it on-the-spot where you need it.
Horny? Because he's your boyfriend, you're obviously attracted to him, and probably have some sexual chemistry. I'm sure he feels the same way.. good for you, but be safe.
Makeup advice? Use a foundation that is ';oil-free'; and ';non-comedogenic'; so it will not clog your pores and create zits.
Don't wear too much heavy eyeliner.
Use a lighter, champagne-colored shimmer to accent under your eyebrows, with a darker shade in the crease of your eyelid.
A nice, shiny, pink lipgloss looks good on any girl.
Good luck :o)
I know 15 is practically a grown up but you only get to be a kid for a very short time and I think you should not try and rush growing up. I'm twelve and I like being a kid. Once you get to be a grown up there are so many things that you can't do anymore like summer time. And when you are a grown up you have to be serious all the time and you can't act silly. I think when you are a grown up they take away your imaginamatation. So why worry about all that grown up stuff until you are a grown up for real?
wow chill jennifer s...anyway you sound hot if you really look like that, i can tell you that guys definatley dont look for confidence i guess its a plus but i dont really care just dont be really unconfident. Also idk how you can have that many eye colors but it sounds cool. And i guess its cuz you like him?
For the softer skin question, use baby oil in the shower i do it all the time and it also helps make your legs feel softer so you wont have to shave as much
well if u can chat with me i can tell u everything but i cant do it in one answer im zeolij12@yahoo.com but i can help you with everything and if you ever have more questions you can chat with me anytime
Softer skin...use good lotion and take cold showers...
Forehead acne...wash your face with Noxema cream and don't wear greasy makeup...
ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
wow your features are a real turn on
Do not expect anyone to be responsible for your happiness. Accept yourself. Respect yourself. Love yourself first. Take good care of yourself. If you really want, you CAN always find something to do that makes you feel good about yourself right now. Love yourself, so pursue your true needs. Light up your true desires. Ask yourself why you didn't? Too often relationships fail because someone is unhappy and blames their partner for making them that way. Your life is ONLY under your control. Keep reminding yourself you are GOOD ENOUGH to have a happy life and a healthy relationship. Make yourself happy, and then share with one another.
# Make and keep clear agreements. Respect the difference between yourself and your partner. Don't expect he or she agrees with you on everything. Reach mutual agreement or plan, and then commit to it. Leave the partner if you can't reach any agreement or you find he or she always makes excuses for breaking the agreement or plan. If you say you're going to meet your partner for lunch at noon, be on time, or call if you're going to be late. If you agree to have a monogamous relationship, keep that agreement and/or tell the truth about any feelings you're having about someone else before you act on them. Keeping agreements shows respect for yourself and your partner, as well as creating a sense of trust and safety.
# Use communication to establish a common ground to understand different points of view and to create a mutual, collaborative agreement or plan. You can either choose to be right, or you can have a successful relationship. You can't always have both. Most people argue to be ';right'; about something. They say. ';If you loved me, you would...'; and argue to hear the other say, ';Okay, you're right.'; If you are generally more interested in being right, this approach will not create a healthy relationship. Having a healthy relationship means that you have your experience, and your partner has his or her experience, and you learn to love and share and learn from those experiences. If you can't reach any mutual agreement, that doesn't mean either of you is wrong or bad, it only means you don't suit each other.
# Approach your relationship as a learning experience. Each one has important information for you to learn. For example, do you often feel 'bossed' around in your relationship, or do you feel powerless? When a relationship is not working, there is usually a familiar way that we feel while in it. We are attracted to the partner with whom we can learn the most, and sometimes the lesson is to let go of a relationship that no longer serves us. A truly healthy relationship will consist of both partners who are interested in learning and expanding a relationship so that it continues to improve.
# Tell the unarguable truth. Be truthful to yourself and your partner if you want true love. Many people are taught to lie to protect someone's feelings, either their own or those of their partner. Lies create disconnection between you and your relationship, even if your partner never finds out about it. The unarguable truth is about your true feelings; your partner can argue about anything that happens outside of you, but he or she cannot rationally deny your feelings. Here are some examples: ';I felt scared when I saw you talking to him at the party,'; ';I feel angry when you hang up on me,'; and ';I felt sad when you walked out during our fight and didn't want to be around me.';
# Do not do anything for your partner if it comes with an expectation of reciprocation. The things you do for your partner must always be done because you chose to do them and you wanted to do them. Do not hold your “good deeds” over their head at a later time. Keeping score in a relationship will never work: a person is less likely to notice and value all the contributions of their partner as much as their own.
# Forgive one another. Forgiveness is a decision of letting go of the past and focusing on the present. It's about taking control of your current situation. Talk about the issue and try to reach a mutual agreement on how to handle the situation in the future and then commit to it. If you can't reach an agreement, it's a bad sign. If you learn from the past and do not repeat the same pattern, it's a good sign. It's the only way to prevent yourself from more disappointment, anger or resentment. Respect your partner, when your partner tells you to leave them alone, do give him or her the time and space.
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