Friday, April 30, 2010

Unmarried couple living together...need advice!!?

My boyfriend and I currently don't live together but we want to. We live in Tennessee and he has a 3 year old son with someone else. My boyfriend and his ex have 50-50 custody with their child. Is there some kind of law in Tennessee or in general that says we can't live together because he has a child from a previous relationship and we are not married. He was never married to his ex either. Any legal proof of there being a law like this not existing would be great. Thank you!Unmarried couple living together...need advice!!?
There is no such law. He is the father of the child and how he chooses to conduct his personal life has no bearing on that fact (other than to the extent that it could harm the child).





His ex might have an issue with him living with you, but that's her problem, not yours.





It is not possible to prove that something does not exist. If someone is telling you that there is such a law, the onus is on them to prove it to you, not the other way around.Unmarried couple living together...need advice!!?
Why in the world would you want another woman's left-overs? If you all are not married, what guarantee do you have of his commitment to this relationship? Love 'em and leave 'em is only entertaining in the movies. As for the law, I don't think there is one, but as for the child, what in the world are you all thinking? Doesn't the child deserve some kind of commitment from his parents and step-parents? You all need to consider this innocent little person and what is best for him.
Last time I check, Tennessee was still part of America. Just because he has a child with someone else doesn't mean he can't move on with his life and if that includes living with you in sin then he can do that. It's not a very good example you are setting for the kid but then I guess he never has set a good example for him in the first place.
if he and his ex were married, and are now divorced- it could definitely have been put in the divorce agreement that neither could ';live with'; a boy/girlfriend.


a friend of mine actually had to get married due to this stipulation.


I also live in Tennessee.
No there is no law that says that. First that would be unconstitutional, but just because he has a child in a previous relationship does not mean that he can't live with you.
I have never heard of such a law - I just googled it and came up with nothing, so I say do it anyways and if you'll get caught just say that you are only friends and that you dont live there -
http://public.findlaw.com/?DCMP=KWC-G-HO鈥?/a>





This might help you could probably find the law there if it exists but it doesn't sound likely.
There should be. LOL





But there could be a judge that might say that the babymama can argure that she doesn't want he child living in an immoral situation. Get a lawyer.
nope, no laws. As long as you are cool with raising someone elses child with no say so, you are good to go. If you break up, who has to be the one to move?
I don't believe there is a law forbidding cohabitation. It's your life. Why should anyone else have a say in the matter?
there is no law that says that.

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