Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Any Advice For A Couple First Timers?

Okay so me and my boyfriend decided that we were finally going to have sex this weekend. I'm very nervous and so is he, just because its going to be the first time for both of us, so any advice???








BTW we have our minds made up so don't bother telling me that i should wait until marriage okay?Any Advice For A Couple First Timers?
USE CONDOMS!!!! Please, if you do nothing else use protection!!!





Be respectful of each other, tell him if you don't like something, and don't rush! It might hurt, so don't be afraid to tell him to stop if you have to.Any Advice For A Couple First Timers?
Your mind is made up to have sex. You should wait though, if the love is still there then it will be worth the wait. Trust me I gave it up to the wrong person and it has made later relationships harder.





But if you are going to do it anyway, use protection. Make sure you have privacy and are comfortable and just have fun.





EDIT: I think it is okay to laugh and talk. You should really not make it too serious. You need to be completely comfortable with each other and if you aren't that is a HUGE sign that you should wait. But really, just be comfortable and relaxed and have fun. Laughing is okay. You should probably not just jump right into have sex. Fool around a bit first and become comfortable with that and each other's bodies. Ask him what feels good and tell him what feels good for you. Communication is the best to satisfy you both. Just feel the love! =)
dont rush thats the main thing and if someone makes a dorky mistake dont laugh cuz it ruins the mood for both of u guys, the first time is the time where u try to learn what the other likes its not meant to be rushed...so dont rush!
Use condoms, the sensitive kinds are better for females. Have a towel ready cause you might bleed. I know gross and it's going to hurt. But it will get better the next time.
I KNOW YOU SAID NOT TO TELL YOU DONT DO IT. THE QUESTION IS ARE YOU READY TO HAVE A BABY? DO YOU EVEN KNOW HOW MUCH RESPONSIBILITY TO RAISE A CHILD AND HOW MUCH IT COST. DO BOTH OF YOU HAVE A JOB? IS HE EVEN GOING TO SUPPORT YOU INCASE YOU GET PREGNANT? OR ARE YOU GOING TO BE ONE OF THOSE BABY MAMA THAT DONT EVEN GET FINANCIAL SUPPORT FROM THE FATHER.


THINK WITH YOUR HEAD NOT WHATS BETWEEN YOUR LEGS.
The first time is always a time of high anxiety. Try your best to stay calm. Understand your nervousness and your partners nervousness. Be kind and understanding. Try and take your time. Respect each other and try and remember that it is an act of love. You'll both be fine.

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