Advice about 3somes? For couples who have done this, only please.?

I am a married woman, and lately I have been pondering the idea of a FFM 3some with my husband and another woman. Ofcourse he's all for it, but with reservations. He is so afraid that I will hold it against him for the rest of his life. For the couples who have done this, is what he think pretty much on the money? Does resentment tend to build afterwards? Or can it be done, but with ground rules prior to the activity? I just want to do it once. I dont want an on going relationship with this other person. Or does it even work that way? Any advice would be appreciated.Advice about 3somes? For couples who have done this, only please.?
u will hold it against him for the rest of his life.


resentment does build afterwards


TIE YOUR TUBES then do whatever sex games u want.


plus side: a great orgasm that will last for an hour or two


minus side: a life time of pain, regrets, guilt, and grief





HORAAYAdvice about 3somes? For couples who have done this, only please.?
There should be no resentment if you both are very close in your relationship as it is now. You will get to see each other enjoy another person intimately, how does that neccessarily cause resentment? After our first threesome (ours was with another male) we imediately felt closer to one another not more distant.





People will attempt to tell you this is wrong, or sure to lead to your relationships destruction etc, but if you really ask any of them you'll find that they have never experienced it. Sometimes they claim to ';know'; someone who has. Yeah..and I know the person who invented the internet and he's very regretful.





You may think you want to experience this once, but what if you want it to be an every once in a while, or even an ongoing activity. Just learn to listen to your emotions, your senses and most importantly perhaps your sense of right and wrong about it all. It's a beautfiful thing for a couple to do together.





I am absolutely NOT saying it is for everyone or every relationship, but it certainly is great for a many people.
Well I have never tried it...but being a man I have thought about it LOL Ask yourself this.....how will YOU feel seeing your man kissing another lady....or her giving him a BJ? Will YOU be able to handle that? If so...what if YOU get REALLY turned on when she goes down on you...will he think that you like that more than when he does it?


Personally I think this can open up a whole bunch of problems....and it is just not worth the few hours of pleasure.


It may be better to just try some toys to ';spice things up'; that way there is not other parties involved....but the choice is yours and his....best of luck.
Some damn good advice girls.


I'm truly impressed.
Is your sex life with your husband really THAT dull?? Why in the hell would you want to share your man with another woman? Yes, yes,,,I know it's JUST sex. Believe me I'm not a square or some frigid woman. I enjoy a wild and kinky romp in the sack just as much as the next person does, but this is pushing it. However if you feel you can deal with it and if you feel it's gonna strenghthen your relationship, then do as you will.





*From what I know, the only way one of these ';experiments'; works out is when you have no emotional ties to the parties involved.
I was in the same situation as you. I thought it would spice up our marriage to try something different. But I was wrong. Your husband is right on the money resentment towards your husband and the other woman do tend to build after wards. The woman was my close friend. We had the ground rules but that didn't stop the resentment that was felt. I'm no longer married to this man and no longer friends with the other woman. Hope this helps and gives to something to think about
Wow, I wish my wife was as open minded as you. I asked her and she just about **** the bed. It was the whole jealousy thing, there is a difference between Love and Sex. Heres the whole deal you can resent for not doing it and he can resent you for doing it. Totally a no win situation. If I didnt have kids I would do it and tell her to f**k off if she wants to be a prude. Take Care.
For any woman that truly loves her husband it will cause a problem. I have never had a threesome but know people that have.Seeing your husband buried inside another woman is not an image that you will soon forget. Then what if you don't want to do it after trying it once but he wants to continue. I guess I would also ask him how he would like it if the first time it would be another woman but next time it is your turn and it would be another guy. I'm sure he wouldn't be so up for it. You can find people at places like adult friend finder .com.





My best advice would be don't risk your marriage if you are happy.





Good Luck
You can't do it unless you have really strict ground rules... and if you really think you are secure enough in your relationship for whatever may happen in the aftermath.
Hey there, my partner and i have played mmf ffm and gbs before and it is a lot of fun. But and yes there is a but. you do need to be sure you both are 100% comfortable with your own relationship, no trust issues, no pressure from eather parties. I beleave also setting ground rules is a must and neather of you should push these boundries. My first time was with a profesional woman which made the whole thing less scary at first as there was no worries of hubby running of with her lol . I guess comunacation between you and your partner is the most important thing to have before you even try going down this track.


Good luck and if the time is right i am sure you both will enjoy.
It will work both ways also he will feel like you are holding it against him also. My and My x-wife started out doing this with an other woman and then an other man and then couples. Don鈥檛 get me wrong while it was going on it was great. Eventually I started to suspect that she was doing it with out me and come to find out she was. If you do decide to go on with it make sure you choose the woman and she is someone that you don鈥檛 feel is more or less attractive. After word doesn鈥檛 start asking questions like was she better than me or did you enjoy it. The bad thing is (and I will get beat up for saying this) you need to act like she is just a toy in the mix. I am not saying treat her like crap or trying to be degrading to any females. I am saying her being there should be no different than him using a toy on you or some new position. She is just a way to better orgasms. She is a living being and should be treated as such. It goes the same if you bring in other men.