What is the best and honest advice you can give for a couple that is having problems...?

where one is willing to get help but the other is not?


the one who is willing knows and sees the lack of communication in the marriage, but the other doesn't want to talk about it.





mature advice only please...What is the best and honest advice you can give for a couple that is having problems...?
The one who is willing should get the help even if the other refuses. Individuals in a marriage can get help in working through the problems as couples.What is the best and honest advice you can give for a couple that is having problems...?
1. You cannot change another person





2. You cannot have a healthy marriage if BOTH spouses are not 110% commited.





Truths....and you have to decide, based on the TRUTH, not on what you hope.
Sometimes it's helpful if just one of the spouses goes for counseling.





It has been known to work with the right counselor and if the spouse who goes can be open and objective.
I am assuming you are the one who is willing to talk and he is not. Maybe the way you approach him makes him not talk? Maybe all you do is ';talking'; and he is tired of it? What kind of problems are you having?
the honest truth is, it takes TWO to make it work....if one does not want to try and the other does all the time, chances are the marriage is over.