Don't listen to those people who say, ';Don't go to bed angry';. If you stay up all night trying to work out a problem, both of you get more and more tired and more and more cranky and it makes it worse.
If you're angry, sleep on it. It almost always is better in the morning - especially after sometime during the night, a foot touches a foot, etc. :0)
and KEEP COMMUNICATING NO MATTER WHATWhat is one piece of advice you'd offer to a newly married couple?
Don't rely on your emotions, love is an action word. Treat eachother with love, patience and kindness everyday.
Never threaten eachother with divorce. It may seem like the last thing you'd do, but beware. The D word can be very hurtful. If you let divorce be an option, you will be divorcing.
Forsake all others, meaning, put eachother first. Don't run and tell mommy and others about issues or arguments. Work them out together.
Sounds clich茅, but don't go to bed mad. A small disagreement can lead to long term unresolved anger, so don't be to proud to say sorry or be the first one to ';give in';.
Love your spouse as yourself.
I know this was more than one piece of advice, but all of it is crucial!
May God bless your union!What is one piece of advice you'd offer to a newly married couple?
Live your love, don't just think that the words alone are enough. How? Make every day an expression of that love.
Make sure what you expect and want, or need from the marriage is the same as your partner's. Work together to achieve that.
Be considerate of each other's feelings, in the things you say and the things you do. ';How would this make my partner feel?';, should always be a consideration.
Be aware that you are both human, and will make mistakes. Work hard to forgive those failings, in yourself and in them, but do not allow deliberate hurts/slights to continue.
Remain committed to the relationship, and never allow the thought of ';What if...?'; into the relationship.
Do those little things that make your partner's life easier, and allow them to do the same for you.
Work together towards making the marrige the best it can be.
Live in your marriage. Make it a priority in your life. Put the effort into making it work. Don't be like a single person who happens to have a live in partner.
Be honest with them. Communicate your feelings. If their actions hurt you, let them know. Don't just assume that they already should, and are doing it for spite. Be prepared to listen too, when they tell you the same. Talk about all things, not just the good things.
Stay true to each other and don't let parents or anyone for that matter get involved in your relationship issues. May you have a wonderful marriage and life together.
Never go to sleep or leave each other mad. Always take time to settle it and make up. Nothing is more important than keeping each other happy.
Respect %26amp; value each other.. Although I love my husband dearly, I wish there was more respect %26amp; value in our relationship.
never go to bed mad. support each other. communication is very important.. if you argue never argue about the past. if you get really mad just go some where and cool off.
Be Open. Be Honest With One another. KEY TO ALL THINGS COMMUNCATE ALL THE TIME.
Lots and lots of Communication and always be honest with each other.
LOve and Communication all the time!!!!!
Don't sweat the small stuff. And it's almost always small stuff.
good luck
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