ok this is what happened my husband went to work for what i thought was going to be 3 weeks and it turned out to be 7 weeks so i complained that me and the 3 kids we have miss him very much and i threatened to leave well this pissed him off and now he says i ***** too much and that he is done with our marriage.now he has done all this over the phone and he is suppose to come home on saturday. But last Saturday we had a big fight and he told me to leave him alone so i did. I quit calling him and if the kids wanted to talk to him i let them call, but i didnt speak to him. so now last night he called and i handed my daughter the phone to answer it and he says he wanted to talk to me so we talked and everything was nice no fighting or arguing because im tired of arguing then he calls today and before we hung up he said i love you and he hasnt said that to me in a week so what an i suppose to think. Does he want to work things out or am i just getting set up for a heart break?I need advice? married couples who went through divorce?
It sounds like he may be sincere. I'm sure you've got a lot more going for you underneath this story. Perhaps he's stressed because he doesn't really like being away, but knows that the family needs the money. Maybe he feels like he's not appreciated for making the sacrifices that he does.
When he comes home this weekend, I would make a point of discussing this matter with him (no matter how much you'd like to avoid it), and let him know that you will quit nagging him if he will treat you with more respect and understand how much you miss him.I need advice? married couples who went through divorce?
Of course he wants to work things out. You have three kids together, he isn't going to leave you. You need to settle down and quit stressing out over nothing. All married couples fight occasionally. Quit blowing it up into something dramatic. The man is off working to support you and the kids. Why don't you think of that instead of just yourself, and give him a break?
People say alot of things out of anger. When he gets home, sit down with him and talk to him about this. It's better to resolve this in person than over the phone.
My husband was gone for almost a year in the service, what is 7 weeks. Grow up if he is good to you and the kids and provides a good living What more do you want. Love him even more when he comes home. He loves you he said so. Appreciate a good man. He is working.!!!!!!Mine did not work 33% of our marriage STop Bitching over nothing.
He thought it over, and he's sorry for the way he treated you . He will be a gentleman Saturday when he gets home!
Love Him Back!!
There are much deeper issues here than what you are telling us....
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