I need couples advice?????/?

okay, my boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for 4 years, and we just had a nasty break up, where i felt like he wasnt paying me any attention, he come home from work and all he want to do is lay in front of the tv and do nothing, while i feel like he has lost interest in me. so we are trying to get things back together. but when we broke up i said things that was mean and i threw something at him, so i wrote him a 3 page letter saying how i was selfish and how i am truly sorry. he has forgiven me, but at the same time it is this other girl that he has interests in he txt her and says do you love me and stuff, and so when i asked him who was that, and he said nobody, but he has pictures of the girl in his car but at the same time he says nothing is going on. i dont know if i should believe him or just end it. i really do love him alot, so what should i do?? experienced couples please help meI need couples advice?????/?
If you guys are together now, then if you feel as though he has lost interest in you and then on top of all that you find the text msgs and pics then it's probably best that you just move on . Because he more thank likely has some type of emotional feelings for her, to text her something like ';do you love me?'; Now, if it were nothing then he wouldn't even be asking her things like that nor would have pics of her. Although this may hurt, i think that he may be trying to get you to understand that he's not that interested in you anymore, but he doesn't want to hurt your feelings, so he's not going to tell you that! He wants you to break up with him so he doesn't feel guilty.That's why he has accepted your apology. Honestly, I've been in the same situation before, it's best if you just move on , although it's going to be hard being that you all have been 2gether for 4 yrs. You should just go ahead and be through with him. It'll be hard, but what doesn't kill you will only make you stronger!!!!I need couples advice?????/?
your welcome!!!! I wish you the best of luck!!!

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You know that he has pictures of another girl in his car. You have also found inappropriate text messages. That should be enough clues to prove that he is cheating on you. Of course he is going to deny that he is cheating on you or that the text messages meant anything. You should obviously not believe him.... get rid of the boy, build up your self esteem, and stay in school.