Need advice from the married couples?

My husband has really been in the dog house lately. But our anniversary is coming up this weekend, and I am usually the planner. My parents are watching our children Friday evening until Saturday night. What is something nice we can do, that won't bee too expensive and won't involve much confrontation and something that could possibly bring us closer as a couple.


Please any suggestions would be appreciated.


thanksNeed advice from the married couples?
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We have been talking much about this. I do think that going away and getting out of your element is best for you. I also think that you need to REALLY sit down with him and talk to him. You are very unhappy, but willing to try to make it work and that is commendable. I want to answer this better, but I need a bit more details... what are your interests? What are his interests? What city do you live in, or better yet, so as to maintain your privacy, what type of city do you live in? I really want to do some research and help you with this. Tonight when I get home I will email you personally and help come up with some ideas.





Honey keep at it. I think you're a beautiful person, and that you are very very strong. will talk later. :)Need advice from the married couples?
Tell everyone you know that you will be out of town. Lock you self inside the house with the following:





Massage oils


Toys if you are into that sort of thing.


satin sheets


fancy little lacy things to wear


Male fancy things for him to wear.


Food that makes you think of sex:


strawberries


chocolate ect.


Make a set of RUles;


1. No one is allowed to talk, noises allowed are


moaning, groaning, and such.


2. see rule no 1.


3. no outside the bedroom activites such as T.V., internet or phone.





other rules may be added but you see the spirit behind them so far. Then concentrate totally on your man and he on you for the next 24 hours.
Splurge for a nice dinner - either go out or cook at home.


Then go see a movie (no talking) or take a nice walk in the park together.
I don't know what you guys like to do... A nice quiet dinner is always a winner with us.
loser me and my lover are realy in love last time we argue he went to my apartment gave me a letter and cry that he doesnt want to loss me he is totaly in love whit me and iam whit him i dont think there is a couple like us that love each other so much and make love every night since we meet i didnt feel this for my husband whit him was just sex and by the way he is in iraq and thats why i cant tell him whats going on cuz i want him to come back safe and not get kill like him, me and my lover are also in the army but not a second passes by that i dont think about him and we had been in trouble so much we may even be kick out the army if we keep our relationship get a court martial but it wount matter he say we will be together forever he cry everytime we make love and says he will die if i ever leave or cheat on him and iam not planing to do so cuz iam crazy for him.
Take a shower, wear something sexy, and initiate an intimate evening in the bedroom.
Well, I don't know why he is in the dog house, but any time you can get together at a place that brings on communication between the two of you it will be good. Try a place where you can walk (beach, hiking etc...) or go on a long ride (my wife and I went on an 8 hour drive and played truth and dare with no holds bared, it was tremendous we learned alot about each other). Wish you the best.
This is what I like to do....I don't mind eating food out...but I like to order something and bring it back home and eat in the privacy of our own home. Also....how about renting some movies from Blockbuster. Hubby really enjoys that and loves watching chick flicks with me.
I would try a nice Bed and Breakfast somewhere it will be romantic secluded and off the beaten path





plus families don't usually stay at BnB they go for the hotel that has something to entertain the kids
Do something very physical and in nature. My husband and I go spelunking to get away from it all. You have to work together as a team (it's just you two and a guide). Once you get miles under the earth, there is nothing more peaceful and beautiful. There is nothing like being all muddy with your partner and needing each other for climbing support. It really strengthens your trust. You learn a lot about each other. If this isn't your thing, maybe mountain climbing, sky diving, a bungee jump. Go do something extreme, it makes you feel soooooo alive and so close to each other. If extreme isn't your thing, a nice quiet cabin in the woods with a hot tub might be nice.... Good luck ;)
what was ya'lls favorite thing to do when you first met? (movies, bowling, etc) Make it a ';first' date to start fresh on a new page. Try to bring back that time when you guys couldn't get enough of each other. It can return, I promise.
Play board games and suck down a couple bottles of wine. Trust me, I know it sounds corny, but you鈥檒l start to feel like a kid again and it鈥檚 just plain fun鈥?unless you are both ultra-competitive and want to kill each other.
If you're in charge. (Make sure he really isn't making plans) Call your favorite restaurant and order take out. (I love Texas Roadhouse Yummy!) Then go take it somewhere romantic. The park, down by a river, whatever and have a picnic. After dinner play putt-putt, go to a drive in movie or whatever you would like to do that would be a fun activity without hours of empty time to ';fill';. Then spend the night at a reasonable hotel, a bed and breakfast or a campground, whatever you and your husband would like. (You could set up the camp, if you chose this option), before you went out for the night. (Most state and national parks also have rooms or cabins for reasonable prices.) Good luck... The next day go to a museum, a factory tour, go see a giant ball of twine, anything fun and kinda wacky or if that doesn't appeal just find something you both would like to try and do it together. :-)
Perhaps you could fix or order in a yummy dinner, have candles going with a nice aroma, music playing and get into a good conversation of fun, light fluffy flowing moods. No telling how it will turn out when such wonderful setting energy!
A picnic would be nice. My wife and I like to take drives and talk about things. Take a trip out of town and go to a nice restaurant. Then before the kids come back home, make love to each other and re-commit to your marriage.
I'm not sure what you mean by ';won't involve much confrontation';...but here are my thoughts.





Pack a picnic and a blanket and go to a park...





Go out to dinner, then go for a walk....go window shopping.





Do something you used to when you first got together...





go out for icecream





I'm not sure what your interests are but sometimes it's the simple things that keep us close - the things we don't seem to have time to think about anymore...


Good luck - I hope you have a great anniversary
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