I need serious advice from couples that have separated w/a child.?

I have a beautiful 18month son. His father abd i use to be together due to his cheating i left him he moved on with the other girl,and i moved on back to mothers house. He is upset that i will not accept his wrong doing and accept it as the other chick did. He tried to get back toghether i made it clear that it is over. Expically after he let her watch our son all day and lied about it. Now he says he is signing over his rights is he serious or is he just upset w/me??? Should i call him or just leave him alone i changed my # so he can not call me.I need serious advice from couples that have separated w/a child.?
If he wants to sign his rights over then let him...that way it cuts off ALL ties with him and you can be free to move on.I need serious advice from couples that have separated w/a child.?
Let him sign over his rights and move on. Do you want a guy in your life that is willing to sign a piece of paper stating he wants nothing to do with his child? Even some of lowest scum sucking pigs want to see their children and take care of them.
Just remember, ';A MAN WILL ONLY DO WHAT YOU ALLOW HIM TO DO.';
What is it that you want? You say it is over between you and him.





Is he paying any child support, paying for diapers, food, clothing, etc for this child? If he is not then you need to get that started and forget him completely.





If he has not made any effort at all to take care of this baby Himself then you need to let it all go.





He has made the choice to be selfish and only thinking of himself.





You have to start focusing on you and your son. Do what you really want to do with your life whether it is working on a career, saving for a house of your own, etc.





It is not worth the time to get upset, angry or sad over this. Focus on the positives you have in your life, such as your son.
Even if he signs over his rights to visitation and such, he will still have to pay child support.





You should get a lawyer. You can make it to where he can't get the child if the woman is around or at his house.






Why would you call him?


If he wants to sign over his rights - let him.


What a deadbeat loser...
if he wants to sign over his right there is nothing you can do what a jerk for saying he wants to give his rights up just because you wont be with him.sounds like he doesn't deserve your son.don't call him let him do what he wants BUT don't let him fool you he still has to pay child support even if he signs his rights over...I hope your going to take him for child support
First of all. Your a lush and treating this as such. So he cheated...Big Fricken Deal.





He has a child to support so he better grow up. You want out of the marriage get a divorce.


Stop the bickering.





Your next husband will probably do it too.
HAHAHAHAHA!!





HE is an AZZCLOWN!





HE cannot ';SIGN OVER'; ANYTHING!





LMFAO!





Tell him that Valerie said, ';NICE TRY, LOSER';!!!





He is another azzwipe full of empty threats his checkbook can't cash!





GUARANTEED!
Well if you can make it on your own without his financial support, then go ahead and let him sign his parental rights away. Your kid deserve a better father than that. But if you need his support for the kid, he will have to be allowed time to spend with his son. I would stipulate that whomever he is dating not be allowed to care for your son. That if your ex wants to spend time with him, then he alone can spend time with him. If it means he spends supervised time with him then so be it. Your son should not be subjected to your ex's flavor of the month gfs.